Evans Funeral Home
"Compassionate Funeral Service"
Carrington and New Rockford, North Dakota
701.652.3003 or 701.947.2911
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Elaine Stedman
Elaine C. Stedman went to meet her Lord on August 17, 2024, at Golden Acres Manor in Carrington, ND. She was born in rural Edmunds, ND on April 30, 1939, to John and Ella (Schaeffer) Scheck. Known as “Sister” to her parents and brothers, Elaine began her farming career at an early age as she became her father’s right hand in the milking parlor and alongside him in the field—planting, haying, and harvesting.
Elaine’s education began in Glacier Township #1, a one-room schoolhouse, where this rough-and-tumble tomboy ruled the schoolyard. In the classroom, her teacher frequently asked, “Elaine, would you like to go home?” She majored in schoolyard antics and shenanigans while her ever-patient teacher tried to focus her attention on becoming a proper lady in preparation for the transition to high school in Carrington, ND. And yes, she did have to wear dresses.
All of Elaine’s prior experience and love of farming made her an ideal partner when she was joined in marriage to Arlo Stedman on September 22, 1957, shortly after her high school graduation. Elaine easily adapted to her new life on the Stedman farm, where she worked alongside Arlo—with bragging rights of bringing in the harvest for 45 years. Eventually, Elaine graduated to the position of chief engineer for the family’s first air-conditioned combine—with her nameplate on full display.
Under the tutelage of her mother-in-law, Elaine also began her studies in the domestic arts of homemaking. These new skills became Elaine’s minor passion, as she showed her love for family and friends in everyday life at home as well as in church. The couple was affiliated with the Methodist Church of Juanita, ND, where Elaine was a Sunday School teacher. In 1972, as founding congregants of Faith Baptist Church in Carrington, ND, the pair cultivated the new church while raising their two children in the Christian faith.
Elaine’s greatest fulfillment in life was found as a grandmother. She was truly a loving and devoted grandmother who nurtured deep relationships with her six grandchildren. The pride and joy she felt for them also extended to the next generation of great-grandchildren.
Elaine was known to have a quick wit and was often cited as the “queen of the 3-second zingers”. Throughout her adult life, she enjoyed traveling with her small family, and later with just her husband. Becoming RV snowbirds, they reconnected with retired family and friends. A travel highlight was their adventure in Brazil for their Godson’s wedding.
Elaine is survived by her husband, Arlo Stedman of Glenfield, ND; son, Randy (Lanell) Stedman of Glenfield, ND; daughter, Peggy Stedman of Carrington, ND; grandchildren, Erin (Alex) Zirbes of Carrington, Amy (Lucas) Stangeland of Glenfield, Ashley (Josh) Hegvik of Carrington, Alex Stedman (Makall Grager) of Glenfield, Emily (Collin) Douglas of Carrington and Abbie (Brady Davis) of Fargo; great-grandchildren, Ella, Aiden and Arlo Zirbes, Brooks, Jeslin, Annabel and Tanner Stangeland, Cooper, Bennett and Alaiya Hegvik, Rowan Stedman, and Barrett Douglas, one brother, Norbert Scheck of Edmunds, ND.
Elaine was preceded in death by her parents, her father and mother in-law, Clarence and Anna Stedman; siblings, Cyril, Stanley, and Lyle Scheck, and Myrna Humbert.
Elaine’s Visitation will be Thursday, from 1:00PM-6:00PM followed by a Prayer Service at 6:00PM all at Evans Funeral Home, Carrington.
A Funeral Service will be held Friday, August 23, 2024, at 10:30AM at Faith Baptist Church, Carrington, ND.
Her Burial will be at the Grace City Cemetery, Grace City, ND.
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Praying for peace & comfort during this time of loss & mourning. We serve a might Lord & Saviour.
I will always Appreciate what Elaine & Arlo taught me as I grew up spending summers on the farm. We loved Elaine very much.
Prayers and sympathy for the Stedman family, may God Bless you and comfort you.
Our Deepest Sympathy to the Stedman Family on the loss of your beloved wife, mother & grandmother.
May she a Rest in Peace
Arlo, Randy, Peggy and family, we are so sorry for your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathy. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We rejoice in knowing that Elaine is with our Lord and Savior and we will see her again someday. May God wrap His loving arms around you and comfort you with His great love.
Peggy on behalf of my husband Pierre and me… we are sending our prayers and deepest condolences to you and your family. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I personally know the love you shared with your Mom. Be strong in the Lord and the Lord will comfort you during this sad and difficult time. Love you
May God grant you the comfort and peace that you all need during this time. The Word of God tells us that precious in His sight are the death of His saints. In my mother’s passing, Psalm 61:2 helped me through that tough time – I hope it helps you! I love you all, Pastor Ray Davidson
King Jesus is with your mom…with all our love. Lutz family
Dear Peggy, I was so saddened to learn of your mom’s passing. I know how much you cared for her, and the loss of a beloved parent must be tremendously difficult. I so enjoyed reading about her spirited life, full of hard work, wit, faith, and family. Although I never met her, I feel that I knew her through the stories you told. I’m sending prayers to you and your entire family. Sincerely, Nikki
Deep condolences to Arlo, Peggy, Randy, all family, and everyone close to all of you. God bless all of you.
Hugs and prayers to the family and God Bless Elaine! ❤️
Dearest Peggy,
I am sending you and your family my deepest sympathy during this difficult time. Please know that God’s love surrounds you at time of grief, as does mine. With love and prayers, always. Your Friend, Ruby
Dear Peggy,
I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. I know she was a strong light in your life. I send my heartfelt sympathies to you and your family in this difficult time. Thinking of you, Abby
Peggy;
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother, from what I see she is a source of the wit and liveliness that are part of you. I’m sure you did a great job caring for her. Be comforted by the fact that she is with Christ. This brings back many fond memories. All the best to your family as you move forward.
Thank you so much for everything sent to Delores & Al Davis. We felt apart of the Service.
God Bless.